The Apology She Deserves !!

A personal journey of love, regret, and cherished memories.

Greetings

Some important days of our life.

CHINA

  • New Year's Day (元旦)

  • Chinese New Year / Spring Festival (春节)

  • Lantern Festival (元宵节)

  • Labour Day (劳动节)

  • Chinese Valentine's Day (七夕)

  • Mid-Autumn Festival (中秋节): October 6, 2025 (Monday)

  • National Day (国庆节 ): October 1, 2025 (Wednesday)

Birthday
Festivals

The day I always forget, August 21 and the day she might be getting very angry June 22.

INDIA

  • Holika Dahan

  • Holi

  • Hindi New Year

  • Rama Navami

  • Raksha Bandhan

  • Ganesh Chaturthi – August 26 (Tuesday)

  • Dussehra – October 2 (Thursday)

  • Diwali – October 20 (Monday)

  • Christmas – December 25 (Thursday)

The moments we cherished.
Every Sunday visit to Hyderabad, India....

Back when I lived in Amravati, Maharashtra, every Saturday became a ritual of love and longing. I’d travel to Hyderabad—sometimes just for a day, sometimes two. No matter how brief the stay, she was always there, waiting.

She’d cook with care, knowing exactly what I liked. And every time I left, she’d quietly slip money into my hand—not out of obligation, but out of a love that spoke in gestures more than words. Her way of loving me was unlike anything I’ve known. It made me feel seen, valued, and deeply cared for.

Those weekends weren’t just journeys across cities—they were journeys into a kind of affection that stays with me even now. 

A Trip That Taught Me More Than I Expected Bangkok, Thailand....

The trip was meant to be memorable—and it was, though not in the way I had hoped. We fought. Again and again. The arguments weren’t really about the trip itself, but about something deeper: our habits, our upbringing, the values we carry from the homes we were raised in.

Coming from India, I’ve grown up with a mindset shaped by modest means. Money, for us, is first about survival—basic needs. Only after those are met does luxury enter the picture. I now realize that her world, shaped by China’s more developed economy, operates differently. Comfort and convenience aren’t indulgences—they’re expectations. And I failed to understand that.

She cried. I stayed angry—held back by my own ego, my own inability to bend. The trip lasted just two days, but I managed to spoil it with my stubbornness. And yet, despite everything, she chose to stay. She could have walked away. She could have found someone with more money, more emotional maturity. But she didn’t. She compromised—for us.

That kind of love humbles me. It reminds me that relationships aren’t built on perfect moments, but on the willingness to fight through the imperfect ones. I may have failed her on that trip, but I won’t let that be the end of our story.